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Your hobby sucks, let me tell you why

That’s right, your hobby sucks. Because every day I walk this campus and my ears are flooded with inane babble from guys who say “yo, dude I’m going to get so ‘hammered’ tonight.” Hammered meaning drunk, although you can also use the words blitzed, lit, sloshed, buzzed, wasted, trashed, housed and bombed. The reason I say this is because a good bit of people do this as their hobby, sit around and drink till belligerent. Wow, such an honorable and respected hobby, you tools.

As for women’s hobby-oh those Ugg-boot wearing women who spend their days lounging and sun bathing, heading to the mall for the newest in ridiculously overpriced and ugly fashions (seriously, ruffled skirts?). Yet, if I criticize such things it’s only because I’m jealous of their beauty and fashion sense, right? Oh, and by the way, dogs need to stay at home; unless your live in the Amazon, you don’t need to be carrying your young in a purse. It’s ridiculous, keep your little Taco Bell dog at home, none of us care that you bought a dog just like all your sorority sisters.

What amazes me the most is that such behavior and interests are considered to be their hobbies; drinking, tanning, going shopping, etc. Now, my gripe is that when such people see someone with a hobby that requires more than a brain stem to accomplish, they flip out and assume it’s the weirdest thing in the world. “You collect stamps? What on Earth are those?”

You see, a few friends and I have been practicing Kendo (Japanese fencing) near the UC Patio area, or on the shore of Lake Osceola. Each time, we get heckled by passerby: “Wow that is so weird,” “What a bunch of geeks,” “Don’t hurt yourself now,” “They need to get a life.” So let me get something straight: Just because I practice an art form that teaches discipline, honor and promotes physical and mental well-being, I am weird, a geek and need to get a life? Now you may say, “Oh if you don’t want people heckling, why do you practice in public areas?” With that reasoning I have the right to heckle you for your ridiculous hobbies, since it is in public and all.

Next time I see you in the Breezeway with your little dog I am going to call you an animal abuser, an insensitive shell of a human with no feelings for sentient beings. I will also heckle the drunkards and call them wife-beaters.

My main point is, respect other people’s hobbies. Don’t make stupid comments for the sake of opening your yap. I don’t outwardly ridicule your hobby to your face and laugh. Respect those around you and in turn you will be respected.

Jovanni Bello can be contacted at j.bello@umiami.edu.

‘Celebrate we will, for life is short but sweet for certain’

As another semester here at the beautiful University of Miami draws to a close, the student body once again is all thinking about the same thing. Only this time it isn’t the happy arrival of Ray Lewis’ Heir Apparent (though thinking about Willie and the defense next season does bring a smile to my face), or the opportunity to see Chris Matthews, James Carville and Ralph Nader walking around campus. No, now we are faced with tragedy, and this is one of the times when it is truly not fair.

I write this on Wednesday morning. I went downstairs to the Stanford lobby today to head to my advising appointment in the Comm school. When I got there, any hope that yesterday was a dream was shredded. Flowers, for Ashley and Andrea. A markerboard, asking for pictures, poems, anything to remember Ashley Kelly. When I look to my friends and girlfriend, many of whom went to high school with Ashley, all we can do is exchange feeble smiles and try to fight back tears.

The most horrible thing about this accident is that it truly was an accident, a case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Alcohol has been ruled out as a contributor. Ashley and Andrea weren’t playing chicken with Miami traffic. For that matter, they weren’t even jaywalking, apparently. The cause of Ashley’s death is something we all complain about every day, but never do anything about: crazy Miami drivers and traffic lights that must have been designed by an impatient 3-year-old.

If there’s anything ironic at all about this truly awful incident, it’s that the University community first got word of it on the day of the Coral Gables elections. Thank you, commissioners, for finally allowing President Shalala to break ground on the University Village. But how about protecting those same students who one day hope to live there? It’s always scary to run across Ponce to get to the Metro on the way to the Orange Bowl. It’s horrifying just trying to make a left turn from U.S. 1 onto Red. And this is not the first time the stretch of U.S. 1 in front of UM has claimed a life. Commissioners, please don’t let this happen again.

But that doesn’t help those who knew Ashley. I’m going to miss the girl I went to Gainesville with last year. A packed car, Ashley sleeping in the back, all going to see Dave Matthews in the hope of voting for change. I’m going to miss just seeing her walking to and from class, in and out of Stanford, wearing that backpack painted with an acrylic sunset. I know my thoughts will be with Ashley and her family and friends, and also with her roommate Andrea, who was with her and luckily escaped. I also know I never want to feel this way again just because of a dangerous intersection. See you at the beach, Ashley.

Patrick Gibbons can be contacted at p.gibbons@umiami.edu.

LETTER TO THE EDITOR

Loss of friend reminds us all to cherish today

Ashley Kelly has now become “that girl who died” from “that accident near Friday’s,” thanks to our University gossip mill. I wanted to write something for the student body so they know she was so much more than a news story.

Ashley was the first person I met here at UM. Having seen my Dave Matthews Band T-shirt, she came up to me and we started talking about our shared love for music. This was the first conversation I had at college, and Ashley soon became my first friend here, as well. In addition to her roommate and best friend, Andrea Cinque, Christina Hajj and I became her “Friends #1 and #2.” This may sound “elementary” of us, but anyone who knew her knew how loyal Ashley was. And any freshman just entering college knows how important loyalty is in such a momentous, and intimidating, step in life.

Ashley was such a refreshing person to be around. Her stories captivated me. Her blue eyes intrigued me. Her spirit invigorated me. Her attitude towards life inspired me.

Ashley was a seize-the-day type of girl, as anyone could see in the lyrics in her away messages, her lively personality and the dreams she held for her future.

I remember at the beginning of this semester, Ashley and I had a few talks about life. We would just chill in her room, listen to DMB, and talk. I remember her talking about her uncertainty in wanting to stay at UM for the next three years. The semester went on and we talked occasionally. The last time I talked to her, we were walking to class. She was in one of her usual peppy moods and she had her hair in two braided pigtails. She was telling me how happy she was to move in with Andrea, Christina and Kate next fall. And although I can’t see her anymore, it’s comforting to know she was happy when she passed away.

I wanted to write about Ashley’s life in order to give her the appropriate recognition she deserves. We owe it to her and to ourselves to relax a bit and appreciate life.

It’s amazing to me that in this high-paced life, everything can be changed forever in a matter of seconds. Nothing I could write will bring Ashley back, but I will do whatever I can to celebrate her life. I wholeheartedly agree something must be done about the traffic situation at that intersection, but for now, let’s just take the time to remember Ashley for who she was: She loved her family, her friends here and back home, school, the sunset, music, partying, our school’s arboretum, making other people feel good, making a difference for the world and having a good time.

I know this sounds clich

The time for action is now

Tragedy has struck the UM family again. Ashley Kelly died Tuesday night from injuries she sustained from being hit by a car while crossing U.S. 1 to go to T.G. I. Friday’s, something we have all done at some point during our time at UM. Our condolences go out to her friends and family.

Our hearts are also with Andrea Cinque, who also suffered injuries in the accident, and who must now deal with its aftermath.

Clearly, nothing can make up for the value of Ashley’s life and the potential she had to influence the world and those around her, but we can do something to preserve her memory and try prevent such a horrific accident from happening again.

At the student level, we should make an effort to be more conscientious of our actions and surroundings. The pedestrian right-of-way doesn’t matter if the driver isn’t paying attention. We would do well to remember this, for example, when crossing Ponce to the Metro station, since the “walk” sign takes a long time to come on and we all tend to jaywalk. Also, when driving around campus, be aware of your surroundings. It’s a college campus and a residential community, and there will inevitably be people walking around, even when it’s dark and late at night.

At the government level, however, Ashley’s life might have been saved if, in the past, the city or the county had taken the initiative to construct an overpass for this highly traveled path. The problem in the area is not new: Since 1990, three UM students have been hit crossing U.S. 1.

On Wednesday, the Student Government Senate proposed the “Ashley Kelly Resolution” in support of the construction of a pedestrian bridge, similar to the one near Douglas Road and the Village of Merrick Park, to make crossing Ponce de Leon Boulevard and U.S. 1 safer. Their support represents the concern expressed by the UM student body about the importance of such a construction. We hope that local and University officials will hear the students’ calls for change and respond, as they should, by providing a safe way to cross the six lanes of U.S. 1.

In fact, in the Nov. 20, 1990, issue of The Hurricane following the death of freshman Eric Adams as he was crossing U.S. 1, the editorial staff challenged officials to “take whatever steps are in order to secure the safety of UM and Coral Gables residents.” Fifteen years later, it’s clear that this challenge was not fully met. Sure, left-turn lights were added and some pedestrian signals have timers, but any student can attest to the fact that U.S. 1 is still a dangerous roadway to cross, especially at night.

After losing yet another life, will the local government, with the help of the University, finally seriously take into consideration the addition of a pedestrian bridge? How many more lives must be lost before drastic action is taken?

Commencement Speaker Announced

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Actor-director-producer Spike Lee will be the featured speaker at the Class of 2005 Senior Convocation address. Lee has revolutionized the role of African Americans in film, with credits including The Original Kings of Comedy, She Hate Me and Summer of Sam. President Donna Shalala invites all students attend and congratulate the 2005 graduating seniors. Lee will speak on Thursday, April 28, at 6 p.m. in the Convocation Center. For more information, contact the Department of Student Activities and Leadership Programs at 305-284-6399.

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UM’s Mock Trial Organization will be holding interviews next week, Monday through Wednesday, for spots on next year’s four Mock Trial teams. No experience is needed, and students returning to UM next year from all majors are welcome. To obtain an appointment for an interview, contact Don Donelson at umiamimocktrial@gmail.com.

Elsewhere – Video game major at Columbia College gets OK

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(U-WIRE) CHICAGO-The long-planned and debated video game major was unanimously approved at the April 8 Columbia College council meeting.

During the meeting, Doreen Bartoni, dean of the School of Media Arts, along with Associate Dean Debra Schneiger, discussed the process that went into getting this major off the ground.

Bartoni said the Columbia 2010 plan was a deciding factor in her push to bring the major to Columbia. Other council members agreed that the major is proof that the college is becoming more innovative.

“I very much support this proposal,” said Keith Kostecka, president of the Organized Faculty of Columbia College. “We are at the cusp.”

The Chicago Tribune, as well as other national and international media, cited the college as one of many schools to work gaming into their curricula. The increased interest in college gaming programs could be the result of a thriving video game industry, which generated more than $7 billion in revenue last year.

UMNEWS – UM’s Institute for Retired Professionals receives Osher Foundation grant

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The Institute for Retired Professionals (IRP) was recently named the recipient of an initial grant from the Bernard Osher Foundation in the amount of $100,000. Contingent on the IRP’s success and growth, the Bernard Osher Foundation will award two additional annual grants in the same amount. In the fourth year, the Institute will be eligible for an endowment of no less than $1,000,000. In recognition of the grant, the IRP will henceforth be known as the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute (OLLI) at the University of Miami. The grant will provide for the development of Learning Institute programs and activities. The IRP, sponsored in part by the Office of the Provost, was founded in 1984 to provide educational and social programs for adults aged 50 and over.

UMNEWS – The Hurricane wins Best College Newspaper in Florida

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Florida Leader magazine recently named The Hurricane the Best Newspaper in Florida in the private colleges and universities category. Judging for the award was based on excellence in writing, design and photography. The Hurricane was featured in Florida Leader’s “Best of Florida Schools” issue along with runner-up The Avion of Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University and honorable mention The Gargoyle of Flagler College.

Tragedy hits – Student hit by car dies Tuesday of injuries

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UM student Ashley Kelly died Tuesday morning after she and Andrea Cinque were hit by a car while crossing a U.S. 1 intersection Monday night. The girls, both freshmen and roommates at Stanford Residential College, were sent to the hospital following the accident at around 8:30 p.m. Kelly was airlifted to Ryder Trauma Center at Jackson Memorial Hospital and passed away at 2 a.m. Cinque was treated for minor injuries and released Tuesday morning from Doctor’s Hospital.

Kelly was a student from Naples, Fla.; Cinque is from West Orange, N.J. Both were crossing the street at the intersection of U.S. 1 and Mariposa Court toward T.G.I. Friday’s when they were struck by a 1999 Ford Explorer. The driver, Kristin Arbuckle, 24, stopped immediately, and no charges have been filed in the ongoing investigation.

News of the accident and Kelly’s death spread quickly through campus on Tuesday, when students, faculty, administrators and her friends took part in a rally of remembrance at the Metro station across from the site of the accident. The rally aimed to bring to light the issue of pedestrian safety, particularly in the U.S. 1 intersections close to campus.

“These are people’s lives at stake,” Sarah Canale, junior, said. “We may not have much voting power, but that doesn’t mean that students’ safety should be ignored.”

“Hundreds of students go back and forth everyday,” Jason Baptiste, sophomore, said. “How many more students need to die before something is done?”

President Shalala issued a statement Tuesday about the accident.

“Ashley’s death is a horrific tragedy, a tremendous loss for the entire University community. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends,” Shalala said. “I have ordered an immediate safety review. The University will vigorously explore solutions to help prevent future accidents, including working with city, state, and federal officials to explore the possibility of building a pedestrian bridge across South Dixie Highway.”

A HISTORY OF ACCIDENTS

This isn’t the first time there has been a pedestrian accident with a UM student in the U.S. 1 intersections near the University.

“Since 1990, there have been three deaths in that area, not exactly in that intersection. In addition, we have had four other students seriously injured since 1990 including the one on Monday night,” Dr. Pat Whitely, vice president of Student Affairs, said. “It’s clear that a pedestrian bridge would make a huge difference.”

On Nov. 16, 1990, a freshman was killed on U.S. 1 while walking toward the Burger King formerly located across the street from the University. On Nov. 14, 1996, a junior was hit by a car at the corner of Ponce de Leon Boulevard and Stanford Drive. The most recent death occurred on Feb. 8, 1998, when a junior was struck on Ponce de Leon Boulevard.

Doug Honegan, freshman and Student Government (SG) senator, co-sponsored a bill with Senator Peter Groverman for Wednesday’s SG Senate meeting, entitled “A Bill to Recommend the Construction of an Overpass Across U.S. 1 at the Location of Mariposa Court.”

The bill, which passed unanimously, will be named the Ashley Kelly Resolution, “in memoriam of the death of Ashley Kelly in hopes that a tragedy such as hers should not be repeated for lack of action on the part of the University, its students and the greater community of Coral Gables.”

BRIDGE UNDERWAY

The idea of a pedestrian bridge is already under discussion.

“I think that it’s feasible but it takes a lot of coordinated efforts between the city, state and the federal level,” Dr. Whitely said. “I have no doubt that President Shalala’s leadership will get it done. We ask the students for support, which we’ve gotten.”

According to Whitely, efforts for a bridge started after the 1998 accident, but all of the agencies involved were not able to coordinate efforts and the endeavor “just did not take off in the way we needed it to.” Many other improvements have been made along the way, including petitions for crosswalks, longer traffic signals, directional signals and timers on the crosswalks. In fact, the impetus for the Ibis Ride shuttles to run on Friday and Saturday nights to Sunset Place stemmed from the safety concerns of students crossing the street to go to the movies.

“We have made progress, and I think we are really committed to getting [the bridge] done this time,” Whitely said. “We just cannot go through this again. The ultimate progress is going to be the pedestrian overpass.”

In the meantime, Henry Christensen, Director of Public Safety, noted that students should take their own safety precautions.

“It may seem like common sense, but only cross the street at a green light and pay attention to pedestrian signs,” he said. “Do not assume that you’re visible to a driver, and wear light clothing when crossing the street at night.”

The entire UM community has felt the impact of Kelly’s death.

“It’s just that Ashley had an incredible life ahead of her and it’s just so terribly sad that it was cut short,” Whitely said. “I’m hoping that we can use a horrific situation for something positive for future generations.”

Honegan said Kelly was the first friend he made in college.

“Ashley was more than an A+ student turned news story, because she realized that life was all about being happy and helping make others happy,” Honegan said.

In addition to Tuesday’s rally, students held a candlelight vigil in memory of Kelly at the Rock on Thursday evening. A shuttle service is being arranged by the University to provide students transportation from Stanford Residential College to the site of Kelly’s funeral.

Teressa Dalpe contributed to this article.

Megha Garg can be contacted at m.garg2@umiami.edu.

Natalia Maldonado can be contacted at n.maldonado@umiami.edu.

CALENDAR

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TODAY

The Kids and Culture campus visit will bring 300 third grade students to campus to experience college life firsthand. Kids attend a chemistry class, have lunch at Chartwells, take a campus tour and more. Volunteers can sign up in UC 240 or at the Rock at 9:30 a.m.

The Chosen Praise Dance Ministry is hosting a Gospel Praise Dance Takeover at 6 p.m. in the UC. The event is free and refreshments and food will be served.

Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority is hosting Rewards for Good Deeds, a party at the Rat from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m.

SATURDAY

Committee on Student Organizations (COSO) presents Rumble on the Green, a field day to challenge student organizations to compete against each other in outdoor games and obstacle courses, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. in the IM fields. The top three teams will receive trophies.

The men and women’s track and field teams will host the Miami Gatorade Invitational at Cobb Stadium. The Hurricanes are led by Miami natives Kim Barrett, Charlette Greggs and Tim Harris. Tickets for the track meet are $5 for adults and $3 for children and seniors.

The Organization for Jamaican Unity will hold an alumni picnic on the University Green as part of Jamaican Awareness Week.

SUNDAY

The Frost School of Music and WDNA-FM 88.9 Community Public Radio are co-sponsoring An Evening with the Music of Harold Arlen at 8 p.m. in the Gusman Concert Hall. UM’s Jazz Vocal Ensemble I and Symphony Orchestra will perform. Tickets are $10.

A Week for Life, SpectrUM raise awareness

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Educating the UM community was a mission for students this week, as both SpectrUM’s Spring Education Week and A Week for Life kicked off events to raise awareness on controversial issues.

Included in the week’s many events was SpeakOUT, an open mic at the Rock that brought to light many issues concerning gay and lesbian people.

“I’m sick of being asked which member of the Fab Five I am,” said Chris Fisher, sophomore and chair of OUTspoken, the political wing of SpectrUM, during the opening of his speech.

Issues discussed during the reading included the discriminatory legislation against gays and lesbians in adoptions and marriage and hate crimes against gays.

“Being exposed to the numerous and horrendous hate crimes that happen to gays, lesbians and minorities appalls me,” Jay Tenny, junior, said. “I’ve recently become an advocate for their safety and for the acceptance of all people regardless of differences.”

The week began with tabling on Monday in the breezeway on the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy concerning gay and lesbian issues.

Other events included a symbolic marriage ceremony on Thursday and Wednesday’s National Day of Silence, a national youth movement to protest the silence faced by gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

A Week for Life makes sex ed fun

At the same time that SpectrUM was holding events, the UC Patio was transformed into a carnival complete with a cotton candy stand, a kissing booth and a performance by Kaos on Wednesday to attract students to have fun in between classes. However, there was one catch: The carnival promoted safe sex.

The Sex Carnival is one of the many events during A Week for Life, presented by the organization of the same name.

A Week for Life’s goal is to educate the university community every semester about HIV and AIDS in an entertaining way.

“We organized the Carnival games and food to attract students,” Tahirah Abdullah, Sex Carnival co-chair, said. “By getting them to go around and learn something in the process, we may make them more likely to use a condom in the future.”

One of the booths included a kissing booth, sponsored by Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority.

“It was more of a Kiss and Tell booth. Students received Hershey’s kisses in exchange for answers to trivia on STDs,” Shaneca Adams, vice-president of Alpha Kappa Alpha, said.

Another way students were educated and encouraged to practice safe sex were giveaways. Organizers handed out condoms taped with catchy phrases such as “Cover your stump before you hump” that would encourage students to stop, read and take one.

Perhaps the most beneficial giveaway was the free HIV testing. Enlisting the help from the local organization, Care Resource, A Week for Life provided students the opportunity to take an HIV test without needles. Students went to UC 245 to find out their status through a swab of their cheek.

“It’s excellent we have this and vitally important young people are aware of HIV and AIDS prevention,” Fatima Henson, junior, said. “It is also a good way to be involved.”

Cecille Lucero can be contacted at c.lucero1@umiami.edu.