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Dear V: Am I the next 40-year-old virgin?

It has been a long time since my last relationship, and since then I haven’t had sex. I have heard people say that when a girl doesn’t have sex for a while, she loses all her skill and the next intercourse is painful.

Dear V: After three years of cyber bliss, I’m left in the real world ...

I was in a 3-year online relationship with someone that basically sucked my social life dry. Her and I were so desperate to be together, that we pretty much got to the point where nothing else was important and we ended up driving all our actual friends away.

Dear V: My long-distance boyfriend won’t make the most of our short t...

I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Our relationship is almost picture perfect; but he has one problem. If it were up to him, we wouldn't have sex at all.

Dear V: What should I do when company of three becomes a crowd?

I have been in a relationship with two guys for two years now; we have lived together for a little over a year. The problem is that since things are starting to get serious, they want to be introduced to my parents. Should I just suck it up and tell my [conservative] parents the truth or would it be wise to keep our relationship under wraps?

Dear V: ‘Stimulating’ conversation makes me question purchase

I was talking with a group of my girlfriends, and the subject of vibrators came up. I mentioned that I do not own one, and they all thought I was weird. I always thought they were just marketed toward nymphos. Should I get one?

Dear V: ‘If you see it in porn, it does not mean that it works in rea...

DISCLAIMER: The following column includes information of a sexual matter. If you are not comfortable with this subject matter, The Miami Hurricane advises that you not read any further.

Dear V: Are physical enhancements defrauding my boyfriend?

My new boyfriend is really cute, and quite frankly--so am I. But not really. I have had several unsightly moles removed from my face, rhinoplasty, hair straightening, orthodontic work, teeth whitening and laser hair-removal. I feel like I am playing a trick on him. Am I?

Dear V: The spark is gone from my online lover. How can we get it back in p...

I just met this great guy on MySpace. We hit it off great online! The problem started when we decided to meet in person. For some reason all of our chemistry is gone. What happened to the charming, funny, sexy guy from MySpace? What can I do to get him back?

Dear V: How can I deal with a girl who can’t deal with my uneven look...

I recently started dating a girl on my floor. Last week we had sex for the first time, and just as things were getting good she stopped when she noticed that I am lacking in a certain department down there. The problem is I have only one testicle due to an accident when I was 5, and she says it's a major turn-off for her. Is there anything I can do to get her to stop focusing on it so we can move past it and enjoy our relationship?

Dear V: Grad school really weighing me down, but will men still see me the ...

I have always been overweight. I got a bariatric procedure as a high school graduation gift. I lost a lot of weight and continued to lose through my freshman year. As a sophomore I started to enjoy a social life and a sex life. Now that I am in grad school the weight has crept back and I am heavier than ever. Are men so shallow that they only buy into what Hollywood and fashion dictate? I'm still the same me, just jigglier.

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