I have a serious problem: I repel boys, and I'm not sure why.

Among my sexual escapades are two guys, both of whom were exceedingly insistent on keeping their orientations secret.

I feel that the greatest joy two friends can share with each other comes from having sex with the same girl... at the same time.

Just address the root of his anxiety and then, ideally, lay back (or on top, reversed or whatever tickles your fancy) and enjoy the ride.

My boyfriend and I want to spice up our sex life a bit and we have been kind of talking out some of our fantasies that we’d like to try. While I suggested chocolate syrup, frilly pink handcuffs and some new positions - he seemed to be more interested in trying out public sex.

Both of my partners know that I am bisexual, it was brought up on the first date. Both of them know that we are not exclusive. But I never specifically told them I was seeing someone else on a pretty regular basis.

This was the first opportunity we had to be alone once the crowd dissipated and obviously the chemistry was explosive. Now I find myself thinking about him all of the time and really want to spend more time with him.

Dear V,   I’m currently single and loving it. However, I recently had a run in with an STD scare and I haven’t been able to get myself back in the game. I feel that perhaps I was a bit too trust...

Never be ashamed of your kinky-side - animal cruelty, domestic abuse and self-mutilation aside. Cookie-cutter sex is ok once or twice, but it’s nice to break away from the confines and get your hands dirty.

Did I mention he's a doctor and that we have similar family backgrounds? I think I could seriously like this guy if everything progresses smoothly. The only apparent problem is how quickly he's wanted to start having sex.