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October 11 , 2025

Dear V: He’s got the goods but not the looks …

V, I started dating this guy, but he’s not exactly Brad Pitt. (Don’t blame me – I was on Tinder while under the influence and I drunk-swiped right). Still, he’s got so much going for him. He’s nice...

Dear V: My boss has a bone to pick …

V, I’m a student worker and I can’t stop thinking about my co-worker. It started out as a mere crush but has viciously grown into a full-on passionate desire for him to call me into his office, rip...

Dear V: My girlfriend wants British babes …

V, My girlfriend admitted that she fantasizes about other people while we’re having sex. She told me that the action has gotten stale, and she imagines sleeping with celebrities.  The weird part...

Dear V: Tinder talk could turn turbulent …

V, This weekend I got a little bit drunk and liked a bunch of guys on Tinder. Now, a few of them have been talking to me but I don’t know what to do. Should I pursue relationships with them, or is ...

Dear V: Passion’s a pain in the rear …

V, I’m really self-conscious about my asshole. A close friend of mine gets hers bleached regularly, but I was wondering if that’s something everyone should do? It has become a problem because my bo...

Dear V: I can’t get no satisfaction …

V, I‘m dating this guy and he really sucks in the sack. I refuse to pull a Meg Ryan a la When Harry Met Sally and fake an orgasm ... so how can I politely tell him to raise the bar ... in bed? Shou...

Dear V: I’m falling for my stepsister …

V, My dad remarried three years ago, and my stepmom has a hot daughter. I found out she is coming to UM next fall as a freshman. I don’t know what to do. Should I avoid her? Should I pretend I don’...

Dear V: Does real world mean heartbreak …

V, I’ve been in a relationship for about a year now. We met when we were juniors and hit it off right away. The problem is, we have very different plans for when we graduate in May. I want to go to...

Dear V: Too tipsy on the dance floor …

V, I fell on the dance floor at a frat party. I can’t remember much from that night, but I do remember him. He helped me up, and I could not imagine anyone more attractive. I was caught off guard, ...

Dear V: Nice guys finish without me …

V, There’s a guy that I’ve been friends with for a long time who has always had a thing for me. He’s always there for me and he tells me I’m beautiful on a daily basis. I’ve been hesitant about bei...

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